A guest post written by psychologist Olivia Williams Jones from High Style Life.
Going through a divorce is heart-breaking but when the kids are involved, too – it’s a million times harder. In such a situation, splitting up from your partner is no longer about just the two of you but those little souls as well who are absolutely clueless about the ways to process this change and – consequently – handle it. Further, for parents who aren’t careful about the way they are dealing with their decision to get separated, a divorce may be an extremely traumatic experience for a child, causing long-term consequences on their self-confidence, self-image, emotional state, and overall understating of family values.
However, when things are well-thought-out and Continue reading How Having a Dog Helps Children Feel Less Anxious after Parents’ Divorce
One thing in common when deciding if you are a Good Enough Parent
After talking to many parents over the years, there is always one thing that holds them back from feeling like they are doing a great job of parenting: other people’s opinions.
Case Study: Using the Pushchair
I remember having an unpleasant experience when walking down the street with my son when he was in his pushchair, several years ago. I was made to feel like I wasn’t a good enough parent. My son had been in a seat that had faced me until he was about 1 year old. We walked along and I spoke to him as we went. As he got older and taller, I used a pushchair that faced outwards. In my mind, he was then able to look around at the environment to learn more about his surroundings. I consciously made sure that I stopped the pushchair to speak to him now and again, pointing out things that he might not have seen before. We were always chatting!
I was quite confident with this method of walking around town with my son. That was, until a man and a woman stopped me in the street to tell me that, in their opinion, I shouldn’t be using this type of pushchair. Continue reading How to be a Good Enough Parent: A Case Study
It has taken us several years to finally figure out how to care for curly hair to stop it getting knotty. H’s very curly hair is beautiful but became difficult to maintain.
Trying Different Hair Care Products
Over the years, we have used many different products on her hair. From tangle free shampoos to leave in conditioners to pouring lots of rinse out conditioners on her hair. Nothing seemed to work for very long or at all.
We have also been through our fair share of combs and brushes. Not many worked for us.
Knots in Hair
When she was around four years old, H had terrible knots of hair at the back of her head. She had grown impatient of sitting down for long periods of time while I combed her hair. As she slept, the hair got more and more knotty on the part of her head that touched her pillow the most. The combination of less combing and it tangling up in her sleep meant that there was very little I could do.
Continue reading How to Care for Curly Hair to Stop it Getting Knotty
Having a baby prompts many people to give you wanted and unwanted parenting advice. Here are some tips on how to navigate through the minefield of parenting a newborn baby.
Congratulations, you are Pregnant! Now, Here’s My Advice…
As soon as you find out that you will be having your bundle of joy, you will get advice. Sometimes this is very welcome and supportive. Quite often though, some advice can be less helpful. Continue reading How to Respond to Unwanted Parenting Advice: Your Newborn
Here are our 7 incredible autumn blog posts that will convince you that this time of year is great for families.
People always seem to have a preference as to which season is their favourite. Generally, our friends and family favour the summer sun to drizzly autumn. I actually like all the seasons almost equally and enjoy them all as they come around each year.
Spring is wonderful. We really enjoy the ever-increasing lighter evenings. The motivation to get the house and the garden tidied is more prevalent here too. Summer is fab because we get to soak in that lovely sunshine as well as to enjoy those longer days. Winter has the promise of Christmas. It is a time of meeting up with family and friends. Although, I am not so keen on the ice.
Autumn is one of my favourite times of the year though. We start a new school year and get back into a routine after the summer holidays. I absolutely love enjoying that first homemade hot chocolate of the season. The weather is cooler but warm enough still to enjoy a walk in the fresh air. Usually in wellies to splash in the puddles. We get to see the leaves falling from the trees and walk through them, kicking them as we go. The nights draw in, meaning we get to snuggle up in the warmth of the living room and watch good TV shows and films. Autumn is a great time of year. Continue reading 7 Incredible Autumn Blog Posts to Inspire You